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What is a Personality Disorder?

Writer: Rachel HansenRachel Hansen

Updated: Mar 2, 2024

A personality disorder is when someone's way of thinking, feeling, and behaving differs significantly from what's considered typical or healthy. It's like having a unique lens through which you view the world and interact with others, but sometimes, these patterns can lead to challenges in relationships or how you feel about yourself. Therapy is there to help you understand these patterns better and learn new ways to cope with them, so you can feel better and have healthier relationships. It's all about working towards being the best version of yourself, even when things get tough.


  1. Maintaining Healthy Relationships: People with personality disorders may find it hard to form and keep healthy relationships because of struggles with regulating emotions, dealing with interpersonal conflicts, or feeling distrustful. For instance, those with borderline personality disorder may have intense mood swings and fear being abandoned, which can make relationships feel unstable. People with narcissistic personality disorder may struggle to empathize with others and prioritize their own needs over those of others, leading to relationship strain.

  2. Achieving Personal Goals: Personality disorders can get in the way of achieving personal goals by affecting motivation, self-esteem, and behavior patterns. For example, individuals with avoidant personality disorder may avoid social or work-related situations because they fear criticism or rejection, which could hinder their career progress. Others with obsessive-compulsive personality disorder may become overly fixated on perfectionism and rigid routines, making it hard for them to adapt to changes or take necessary risks for personal growth.

  3. Coping with Life's Ups and Downs: Dealing with stress, adversity, or life changes can be challenging for people with personality disorders due to maladaptive coping mechanisms or distorted thinking patterns. For instance, individuals with paranoid personality disorder may interpret neutral actions as threatening, leading to constant anxiety. Those with dependent personality disorder may rely too much on others for decision-making or emotional support, feeling overwhelmed when they have to be independent.


Overall, the symptoms and traits associated with different personality disorders can significantly impact various aspects of life, from relationships to career aspirations and overall well-being. Therapy provides a safe space to address these challenges, develop healthier coping strategies, and work towards personal growth and fulfillment.


Addressing a personality disorder is crucial because it can affect multiple areas of life, including relationships, work, and overall happiness. Without intervention, it can lead to ongoing difficulties in managing relationships, achieving goals, and coping with stress. Therapy offers the opportunity to understand oneself better, learn new coping skills, improve relationships, and enhance overall quality of life. By addressing these issues, individuals can experience greater self-awareness, personal growth, and fulfillment.


Therapy for personality disorders typically involves long-term, intensive psychotherapy using various approaches such as dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), schema therapy, and psychodynamic therapy. The focus is on increasing self-awareness, developing coping skills, managing emotions, and improving relationships. Treatment may also include medication management for co-occurring symptoms like depression or anxiety. The therapy process is collaborative and tailored to the individual's specific needs and goals, aiming for sustained improvement in functioning and overall well-being.


Schedule your free 20 minute phone consultation today and learn how Thrive Well Therapy PLCC can help you!

 
 
 

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